I have a girlfriend and when she’s on her game, sex with her is fantastic.

When she’s on her game.

I’m in my late 50s so I appreciate a partner who “brings the heat” when it comes to sex. And as I said, when my girlfriend has her heart fully in the experience with her is amazing. However, she is a human being and she is not always in the mood, and I also get the feeling that sometimes she acts as though she’s not in the mood to maintain a level of control over the relationship.

More and more, I found myself returning home from dates (dates that had a high cost in terms of money, time, and effort) sexually unsatisfied. It is not that I don’t enjoy my time with her, I very much do, but she consistently puts me in the mood for sex, and that sex was not always available.

As a result, I discovered myself doing stupid things and making bad decisions solely on the basis of my desire to get sex. When this has gone on long enough, I decided to try technology as a solution.